He's charming and sweet, you like to show him off to your friends because he's a perfect gentleman and you want everyone to know. 

But how can you be so sure he's not just acting out a role, and doing the exact things you want?
What if he has some other ladies he's also charming? How can you tell you're the only one or 'just one of the ones?'


  1. He asks for sex on the first date: Players know that modern girls are fickle. Whether they put value on the immediate one night stand is immaterial - they know they have to push the interaction as far as possible to get the girl invested and maximize the chance she will return. 

  2. He's evasive or mysterious about personal things: You're unlikely to hear about a player's dreams, aspirations, insecurities, etc. Good players don't want to tell you anything that could be used against them, and really, whatÂ?s the use of opening up to someone you don't view as a potential partner?